Weddings16 January 20262 min read
The father of the groom: elegance and restraint.
Wool or cashmere, deep shades, measured accessories: standing beside your son with an elegance that is noticed without taking the front.
By Gilles Masson, Atelier Mesure, Paris 7ᵉ
When it comes to the father of the groom, elegance and restraint are the two words that matter. A wedding day is one where every detail registers, and this role is a particular one: you accompany your son through an important step while making sure the couple keeps the light. A well-fitted suit, chosen for the season, is the quiet way to mark the occasion.
The cloth: wool and cashmere
For a winter wedding, the cloth decides most of the comfort. Wool and cashmere are warm and, equally, they hold a line well through a long day. A merino jacket, for instance, keeps its shape through hours of ceremony while protecting against the cold. See the wedding suit guide for more.
The colours to favour
Colour is the other decisive choice. Dark shades, navy, charcoal or black, are the classics that guarantee a discreet result. They also leave room to play with accessories: a tie or bow tie in a bolder tone, burgundy or deep green, creates a quiet contrast without raising the volume.
Fit is where it is won or lost. A made-to-measure suit gives a drape and a comfort that off-the-peg cannot. Book a slot to talk through what you need.
Accessories, in measure
Accessories play their part in the final result. A carefully chosen pocket square, restrained cufflinks or a good watch turn a simple outfit into a considered one. In winter, a well-cut overcoat and a cashmere scarf complete the look while keeping you warm through the parts of the day spent outdoors.
« True elegance lies everywhere, above all in what cannot be seen. »
Key points
Getting the look right
- Choose seasonal cloths such as wool or cashmere
- Favour classic, restrained colours
- Choose accessories that add one personal note
- Make sure the suit is properly fitted
- Do not overlook details such as cufflinks
- Wear a good overcoat for outdoor ceremonies
- Ask for guidance rather than guessing
The suit for the father of the groom should hold elegance and restraint together. With good cloth and an accurate cut, it becomes a garment attached to the day rather than a costume worn once. For more, see the wedding suit guide.
